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How I Deal With Conflict In My Pack - stories from Lee Asher and Asher House Wellness

Oct 16 2024

2 min read

Updated: Apr 23




Hey Asher House Wellness family—Lee here! I just witnessed a classic “pack moment” with my own dogs and realized it’s a perfect opportunity to share a quick lesson in pack leadership, trust, and healthy communication. At Asher House Wellness, our mission is to empower you and your pets to thrive together—whether through our vet-approved joint chews, calming anxiety treats, or holistic training tips. Here’s what I saw and how you can apply it in your own pack:

1. Let Your Pack Speak Their Language

When you have three or more dogs (or even two strong personalities), you’ve got a true pack dynamic. Today, Clyde (the playful older brother) kept pestering his sister Loba, who made her boundary crystal clear—teeth-baring, growls, the whole “leave me alone” routine. Instead of jumping in immediately, I let them communicate:

  • Why it matters: Puppies and adult dogs learn self-regulation when they can give and respect boundaries.

  • Asher House Wellness tip: Support calm behavior during these moments with our Natural Calming Chews—handcrafted to soothe without sedation.

2. Two Wrong Ways to Intervene

  1. Do nothing at all. Ignoring boundary-setting can escalate to real aggression.

  2. Stop it immediately at the first sign of tension. Interrupting every “hiss” and “grumble” teaches dogs that you don’t trust their self-control—and actually implants fear.

Both approaches undermine your pack’s natural communication and can create anxiety.

3. Two Right Ways to Guide Your Pack

A. Defend the Dog Who Asks for Space

If one pup clearly signals “back off,” step in on their behalf—practice positive reinforcement by rewarding calm compliance with a quick treat from our Allergy Relief Chicken Breast Treats.

B. Trust & Patience: Let Them Sort It Out

When confidence and trust are solid, you can wait until the very last moment—only intervening if real danger looms. This builds:

  • Stronger pack bonds: Dogs see you as a leader who truly “speaks dog.”

  • Self-confidence & resilience: Each dog learns they can rely on their own voice to keep peace.

If you’re not quite there yet, combine both methods: let them work it out in a controlled space, then pop Clyde on a leash when he won’t respect Loba’s boundary—teaching him that ignoring her “stop” has a clear consequence.

4. Key Takeaways for Positive Pack Dynamics

  • Trust your dogs’ instincts: They know how to set and respect boundaries.

  • Support, don’t micromanage: Too much interference breeds fear; too little invites conflict.

  • Use holistic tools: From our Gut Health Probiotics to Hip & Joint Chews, Asher House Wellness offers natural solutions that help every member of your pack stay balanced and happy.

Want more dog training tips and holistic pet wellness insights? Visit www.asherhousewellness.com and explore our full line of natural, third-party tested supplements.

Thanks for listening—here’s to stronger bonds, healthier pups, and compassionate leadership in every walk! 🐾❤️

— Lee Asher & the Asher House Wellness team



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